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I have missed you all so much, and I wish I had more time to get to know all the new members, but things have been a crazy for the last year. I hope you all forgive me.

My oldest Tarin is getting married and I have a new grandson. His name is koshon and he just turned 3 years old. Tarin and her almost hubby have going to rounds in a custody thing that finally got settled about month ago in time for his 3rd birthday. She is also defying the doctors and having a baby of her own (due in Sept. but expected in about 3 weeks) She has agreed to move home for the birth we have much better doctors here, but they will be lliving with me. Its not a huge secret that Mark her hubby-to-be and I arent the best of friends soooooo this will be intersting. :fook:

My Mom Patsy moved in with me about a year ago, she has senile dementia, and about a month ago I decided she needed more attention and care than I could give her. I have been working 4 days and 10 hours a day now for awhile but with the drive time I am gone almost 13 hours out of everyday, The state stopped providing a nurse to help, and with Britty being 15 and Ethan being Ethan, I have been a bit overwhelmed. My oldest brother found her a great place (verra pricey but worth it) closer to him and we moved her in there. They require a complete no holes barred physical which turned out to be a good thing, because we discovered that my Mom has pancreatic cancer. She is staying pretty upbeat, but her time is very short. I spend a great deal of time on the hiway between Blackfoot and Ogden. If anyone needs to know where the worst of the constrution is let me know :wall:

My hubby Jeff found a really good job (really good money) but its out of state. So lately I see him only on weekends,and I am missing my own Scott pretty bad. But for mothers day he bought me a new Honda Ridgeline pickup.(i love it) But the poor thing had to have an oil change before the 1st payment was made cause of all the miles I have put on it already. :scared:

My job kinda bites, they are making the compliance metics so high that no one is hitting them anymore. My supervisor thinks they are trying to close down our center, withou having to pay fines to the union. I think he is right about that. But honestly I am hoping that they fire me. I could use the vacation. :kisswink::bonk:

Poor Mel I bet when you asked where I had been you didnt expect me to write a book about it huh. I do come in and read try and keep up with all the new goings on. Our beautiful Boy is doing soooo well cant wait to treat myself to another New Gerry Movie (Pam woman we should all go again that was fun)

Mostly I try and keep up with all of you. I miss you more than you know, and just knowing that you are all here,gives me more comfort and strength than you know.

:butterfly: LUVS ALWAYS Toni :butterfly:

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Awwwww, Toni... so great to hear from you! I miss you awfully bad! I am so sorry to hear how hectic and difficult things have been for you. With everything going on in your family.... it sounds like all your YOU time has been all but squeezed out. This cannot be easy for you, shouldering so many responsibilities, and I hope that somehow, things can open up a bit for you, but it doesn't sound like that's gonna happen soon.

I hope and pray you can somehow manage a few minutes to yourself and that things will improve.

You know we all love you and miss you, and we are here for you if you need us!


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OMG Toni!! ((((((((huge hugs))))))) to you!! You ARE NOT FORGOTTEN! :rose:

I keep up with you from Chris. I really missed you two in Vegas this year.

Sounds like lots of activity in your life, some good some not so good...such seems the way it goes most of the time.

Please keep in touch as you can.

Oh, and I'm still writing my Attila fanfic, but am about to bring it to a close. Although Perrine literally lost her head, Antonia's life was spared! :claphands: Whenever you get time, you should get caught back up on it.

Hugs to you Toni!



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Huge :hugs: to you Toni. I've missed seeing you around the boards and in Vegas as well. Wow, life can get so overwhelming at times. Please know that we are always here for you.

I hope you are able to carve out just a tiny bit of time for yourself. We are glad to see you pop in when you can.

Jill :rose:

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See somehow I knew you would all understand. :kisswink: Swannie I miss you too, and I am soo glad to hear that you are still writing. One day I WILL buy that novel in leather bound hardback :claphands:

How is your Nathan doing? He is so talented he deserves only the best. (You too)

Song thank you for letting me keep my head,hahaha. But you know Attila would have been nice too :greatking: I heard from Chris that you havent had the best year either hugs to you too.

I missed Vegas but I am soo there next year. Chris and I both so start preparing yourselves now.... :cunning:

Jill thanks I miss being on the boards and our gals crazy antics

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Nathan is doing great Toni! Thanks for asking! He's feeling well, composing again, and looking for a part time job! And yes, I am STILL working on my book!

Here is a pic of Nathan and his girlfriend Diana at the Vegas Con:

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You and Chris just have to come next year! Everyone missed you!


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OMG>>>>> TONI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :claphands::claphands::claphands: Wow it's sooo good to hear from you again. You have been missed on here and were certainly missed in Vegas!! I hope both you and Chris can make it next year!



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TONI!!!! It is so great to hear from you. As the others have said, you have been missed, both here and in Vegas (and Chris too). I'm sorry you've had so many issues to deal with, and hope that you get a reprieve that allows you some more "me" time. It would be great to see you around here more often, like the "old days". And you and Chris had better come to Vegas next year!!!!



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Hi Toni :wave:

So good to see you!!!

Things sound pretty busy right now but I'm so glad you had some time to stop in. You've been missed.

I'm so sorry about your mother, I will keep her in my prayers.

Hope to see back again whenever you are able. We are always here for you.

Love and Hugs,


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And see you all thought we dropped off the face of the earth and here we still are in Idaho. :funnyface:

Hugs and Miss ya


Well Idaho, Utah, Colorado, Wy, Montana, Nevada ....... Have I forgtten anywhere? hehehehe :doh: I think I need a laptop and internet connection in my car :kisswink:

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I missed you so much Toni aka my merge!

Congrats on being a new grandma! I am sorry that you've been going through so much. I think of you and Chris often wondering what kind of trouble you two are creating in Idaho. I wish I could send you guys a couple of valets so y'all can have some fun. Say hi to twinks for me and tell her I miss her too. Love you lots!



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Valets in small leather thongs pleeeeeeeeeeeease!!! :lookin: This one works for me! hehehe

Twinks misses you too. I am surprised you arent recieving tons of text messages from her. Ever since she got that phone of hers, I am pretty sure it only leaves her hands while she is in the shower. :rotflmao:

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